True “Courage is to Tell the Story of Who You Are with Your Whole Heart”* – Step 12

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“Courage
starts with
showing up and
letting ourselves be seen.”

– Brene Brown (1965 – ) U.S. professor / author

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What happened the last time you had the courage to forgive someone, or alternatively, fearlessly asked for forgiveness yourself?

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Courage – Superchick (4:00) 

*Essay on Brene Brown and Wholehearted Courage

Forgiveness Healing Guided Meditation (9:12)

Analysis of today’s SFZ:

The passages highlight the importance of inner peace, forgiveness, and vulnerability in personal healing and recovery. Step Eight from Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions emphasizes the need to clean up past mistakes, not just within ourselves but also in our relationships. It acknowledges that true peace requires addressing unresolved conflicts with others. This aligns with psychologist Carl Jung’s idea that self-awareness and personal growth come from confronting our shadows—the parts of ourselves we might prefer to ignore.

The second passage, from It Works, How & Why, reinforces this by stressing the difficulty of facing past harms. However, it suggests that spiritual preparation makes the process more manageable. This reflects Viktor Frankl’s perspective in Man’s Search for Meaning, where he argues that healing and purpose emerge through suffering when we approach it with responsibility. Taking accountability for past actions and making amends helps individuals move away from self-centeredness and toward connection with others.

Brené Brown’s quote ties these ideas together by emphasizing vulnerability as a form of courage. She argues that real strength comes from being open and honest about our struggles. Similarly, psychologist Marshall Rosenberg, known for Nonviolent Communication, stresses that healing relationships requires both honesty and empathy.

These insights suggest that making peace with ourselves and others requires courage, responsibility, and self-reflection. Forgiveness, both given and received, plays a central role in breaking free from guilt and emotional isolation. By embracing vulnerability and accountability, individuals can move toward deeper self-awareness and stronger relationships. Through this process, inner peace becomes not just a personal achievement but also a way to foster harmony in the world around us.

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Comments

6 responses to “True “Courage is to Tell the Story of Who You Are with Your Whole Heart”* – Step 12”

  1. Tony Avatar
    Tony

    I find it hard to celebrate all of me. When things are bad and I don’t know how I got there. It takes time to find something to celebrate. I’m going through one of those times in my life.

  2. Chi Chi Avatar
    Chi Chi

    Forgiveness is something I have had hard times with….. Love, Betrayal, Loss are just some of the things. But I have been able to forgive but I am learning so It doesn’t happen again…..

  3. Slim Jim Avatar
    Slim Jim

    I tried asking for forgiveness today but I am not sure the other party sees it that. I suppose it my turn to be patient now.

  4. Br. Buddha Avatar
    Br. Buddha

    Good morning everyone + Happy Tuesday. Here is today’s thought, FAITH. Faith is the bridge between you + God. When we cross this bridge of faith, we make the venture of belief + can believe that fundamentally that all is well. Say this prayer. “Lord help me trust in you. Help me increase my faith in you. Help me especially when my faith is weak in you.” Keep the faith. Blessings. BB

  5. JB jr. Avatar
    JB jr.

    I recently tried to make an amends but the amendee either didn’t see it as such or is still a bit miffed. Nevertheless, I extended the offer and we’ll see where we go from here.

  6. Margot E. Avatar
    Margot E.

    My conflicts begin when I attempt to control. Control is smoke and mirrors – control is an illusion. I only have control when I can convince others that they have no power. We all have power and we always have power. Simply the capacity to make a decision. That I exist in three dimensions (body, mind and spirit) means I am constantly making choices, decisions, about how I hold myself in this world. I have power – I have no control.

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