“Life is a Process of Becoming” – Step 2

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“Life is a pro-
cess of becom-
ing, a combination
of states we have to
go through. Where peo-
ple fail is that they wish
to elect a state and
remain in it. This
is a kind of
death.”
– Anais Nin (1903 – 1977) French-American author

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An Analysis of: “Life is a Process of Becoming” – Step 2

Today’s SFZ explores Step 2 of recovery—coming to believe in a power greater than ourselves—through the lens of personal growth as a continuous process. Anaïs Nin’s insight that “life is a process of becoming” sets the tone: life resists stagnation. People often want to remain in a comfortable state, but growth demands movement. Carl Rogers, a leading voice in humanistic psychology, affirms this in On Becoming a Person: the good life is a process, not a state of being.

In recovery, individuals often fail to see their own transformation. As noted in The Language of the Heart, others may witness a spiritual awakening long before the individual can name it. This mirrors Viktor Frankl’s concept in Man’s Search for Meaning: we often discover purpose not in direct pursuit, but in reflection.

The quote from It Works, How & Why frames recovery as discovery. Mistakes become teachers rather than shame triggers. Brené Brown, a scholar of vulnerability, suggests that embracing imperfection is central to a wholehearted life. Willingness to grow—despite flaws—is the foundation of lasting change.

This process-oriented view of spirituality rejects perfectionism. Instead, it honors transformation through honest effort. James Fowler, in his theory of faith development, echoes this when he describes faith as evolving rather than fixed.

In recovery, becoming is not a single moment—it’s a steady unfolding. We learn to trust the process, even before we fully understand it. That is both the mystery and the gift of Step 2.

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4 responses to ““Life is a Process of Becoming” – Step 2”

  1. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    Some of my personal spiritual growth is in conflict with my step work and I am working through that by changing a word that bothers me. That’s the beauty of the step work for me, that I can make it personal and place my spiritual journey first with my step work supporting and not conflicting.

  2. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    I think I’m getting mentally stronger as the years pass in becoming more positive spiritually, and seeing more, and more how important it is that I stay on a path that’s right for me that I understand. There are spiritually racist people out there who may become lost, so keeping my path on the right path despite that, is essential to me more and more as the years pass.

  3. Jon G Avatar
    Jon G

    I have discovered that it is a continually changing process and that my rate of growth is not linear. Sometimes the growth is stagnant, or almost regressive, and then at other times my progress makes a great leap forward. One thing has become certain, it is a continually changing process and it is imperative that I remain willing, open-minded and teachable. Most importantly, I need to learn to not take myself too seriously.

  4. Br. Buddha Avatar
    Br. Buddha

    Good morning everyone + Happy Wednesday. Here is today’s thought. There is no denying that life in today’s world can be complicated. There are many forces fighting for our time + our attention. It seems overwhelming at times. Just remember that God is here + will always take care of us. Blessings. BB

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