How Bewilderment, Indifference & Intolerance Thwart Spiritual Growth Dead in its Tracks – Step 2

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“The roadblocks of indifference … often prove more solid and formidable.” “[T]he dilemma of the wanderer from faith is that of profound confusion.” “He cannot attain in even a small degree the assurance of the believer, the agnostic, or the atheist. He is the bewildered one.” (12 & 12, p. 28)

 

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How might indifference (not caring) sabotage one’s spiritual growth and/or recovery?

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Today’s SFZ explores how spiritual growth demands clarity, willingness, and open-heartedness. Step Two calls us to believe in a Power greater than ourselves. Yet bewilderment, indifference, and intolerance block that belief before it can begin to form.

The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions describe the “wanderer from faith” as deeply confused (p. 28). He is neither believer, atheist, nor agnostic. He floats, disconnected, unable to plant his spiritual feet. William James, in The Varieties of Religious Experience, argued that spiritual vitality springs from experience and decision. The bewildered person makes neither. He stands paralyzed by indecision, and spiritual progress halts.

Indifference presents an even harder wall. The White Booklet of Narcotics Anonymous warns that indifference to spiritual principles is a primary cause of relapse (It Works, How & Why, p. 12). Viktor Frankl, in Man’s Search for Meaning, described spiritual death as beginning with emotional detachment. Indifference signals apathy toward life, self, and God. It undermines any hope of transformation.

Elie Wiesel captured this truth with urgency: “Because of indifference, one dies before one actually dies.” Indifference erodes conscience. It numbs responsibility. It kills the will to seek or change.

Intolerance, meanwhile, breeds resistance. It shuts the door on unfamiliar ideas or paths to spiritual renewal. Philosopher Søren Kierkegaard warned in The Sickness Unto Death that prideful resistance to grace is the core of despair. Intolerance feeds that pride.

To grow spiritually, one must take a stand. Courage means confronting confusion, choosing belief over drift, and embracing spiritual principles with humility and persistence.

 

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10 responses to “How Bewilderment, Indifference & Intolerance Thwart Spiritual Growth Dead in its Tracks – Step 2”

  1. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    When someone is indifferent to what is good for them mentally, and physically it can cause lack of spiritual development. Spiritual development in my recovery means a lot to me, and staying consistent with somethings is where I’m at right now. There’s ways like journaling my bad situations that can help me process things, and take the right road.

  2. Ari L Avatar
    Ari L

    I think indifference can keep us from empathy both directed externally or internally, which in turn is at the root of hampering spiritual progress for me.

  3. E-dawg Avatar
    E-dawg

    In recovery, indifference and intolerance can definitely prevent any spiritual growth… I think it’s better off if those traits are cut off in the very early stages of recovery. I think the later someone Waits, the more ingrained it can be in the soul and harder to get rid of. That’s why it is key to do all 12 steps in order. I’ve been blessed with the gift of love I’ve never hated anybody for who they are or who they are not… that was instilled in me as a young kid and I try to spread that love on a daily basis…

  4. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    Apathy is one of the great enemies of humanity. It makes it easy to identify someone as “other” instead of sister or brother. It works to extinguish joy turning smiles into frowns, and it puts our light under the bushel.

    To care, to have empathy and compassion, to be the Samaritan on the road helping the stranger is to find purpose and joy in the act of service. Being of service is a way to reduce the burden being carried by someone and sharing that load.

    One path creates isolation, one builds community. Choose wisely.

  5. Carle Avatar

    Indiference reminds me to being lazy about nurturing my spirit. When I get carried in the not attending meetings regularly Im indiferent to being of service.

  6. Br. Buddha Avatar
    Br. Buddha

    Good morning everyone + Happy Sunday. Today is the Day of Pentecost in the church. This is where the apostles became filled with the Holy Spirit of God and went forth, empowered to do their tasks. Today, I ask God to fill all the places + people I need, including people who, like me, can feel drained at times. I ask God to fill you too. Blessings. BB

  7. Adam Avatar
    Adam

    Spiritual growth and recovery is like a garden that requires constant care and feeding. Otherwise it just goes to the weeds. I know this from personal experience. I spent most of my life reading about spiritual principles but I never had a spiritual practice. I was keeping the plants alive but the weeds were still taking over.

  8. easy does it Avatar
    easy does it

    Rekindling joy.. hmmm the first thing that comes to mind is to walk by faith and not by sight. I guess to me that means that feelings should not interfere with faith, keep in prayer and meditation no matter what.

  9. JB jr. Avatar
    JB jr.

    I didn’t make it to a meeting tonite. I think that’s part the part of me saying my spiritual recovery doesn’t need to be fed.

  10. Margot E. Avatar
    Margot E.

    I lost my faith when I was 18 when a pastor told me I was going to hell. I figured I didn’t need to go to church if I was going to hell anyway. The restoration of my faith came slowly over more than 20 years. I recognize my part in how ans why I walked away from my Higher Power. More than that, though, I recognize the strength of my Higher Power that brought me back again. Reconnecting with my Higher Power was a sweet and unforeseen journey. Today, I know gratitude, joy, and the abundance that has favored me. Thanks, HP!

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