From the Dark, Dank Recesses of Our Soul a Special Gift may Emerge – Step 6

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“Presently my soul grew stronger; hesitating then no longer.” – excerpt from Edgar Allan Poe, The Raven

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How have you been loving when helping someone close deal with pain in their own lives, lately?

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How can we treat ourselves as gently as the bloom on fruit?

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English Analysis

The three passages highlight the inner journey of self-examination. As Bill Sees It emphasizes humility as the key to transformation. Bill Wilson suggests that real growth requires surrender to something greater than ourselves. This surrender allows grace to replace self-centered illusions.

In It Works, How and Why, the text points to community. Growth does not occur in isolation. Instead, mentorship and sponsorship guide individuals through painful honesty. We see here the importance of shared wisdom and accountability. Without support, self-searching risks becoming distorted or self-punishing.

Henry David Thoreau adds a crucial voice. In Walden and his journals, he wrote often about nature and gentleness. His quote reminds us that the finest qualities need tender care. Harshness damages both the soul and the spirit. Thoreau’s vision resonates with Wilson’s call for humility and NA’s call for guidance. Together, they form a triad: humility, community, and gentleness.

Carl Jung also offers insight. In Modern Man in Search of a Soul, Jung argued that light emerges from shadow. The “dark and negative side” must be faced with honesty and care. Only then does integration bring wholeness. Jung’s ideas affirm the spiritual and psychological roots of Step Six.

In summary, these passages remind us that transformation combines humility, support, and delicate care. They point to both spiritual and psychological wisdom. Self-searching is difficult, yet it leads to renewal and strength.


Spanish Translation

Citas

“Self-searching is
the means by which
we bring new vision, act-
ion and grace to bear upon
the dark and negative side of
our natures. With it comes the
development of that kind of
humility that makes it pos-
sible for us to receive
God’s [or our HP’s]*
help.” (As Bill Sees It, p. 10)

“Most of us
don’t have much
experience with the
type of self-appraisal
we are about to do, and
we must have the guidance
and support of our spon-
sor in order to under-
stand what we’re do-
ing.” (It Works, How and Why, p. 28)

“The finest qual-
ities of our nature,
like the bloom on fruits,
can be preserved only by
the most delicate handl-
ing. Yet we do not treat
ourselves nor one an-
other thus ten-
derly.”
—Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862), U.S. poet


Análisis

Los tres pasajes destacan el viaje interior de autoexamen. As Bill Sees It enfatiza la humildad como clave de la transformación. Bill Wilson sugiere que el verdadero crecimiento requiere rendirse a algo más grande que nosotros. Esta entrega permite que la gracia reemplace las ilusiones egocéntricas.

En It Works, How and Why, el texto apunta hacia la comunidad. El crecimiento no ocurre en aislamiento. Más bien, el patrocinio y la mentoría guían a las personas a través de la honestidad dolorosa. Aquí vemos la importancia de la sabiduría compartida y la responsabilidad mutua. Sin apoyo, la autoevaluación corre el riesgo de distorsionarse o volverse castigadora.

Henry David Thoreau añade una voz crucial. En Walden y en sus diarios, escribió con frecuencia sobre la naturaleza y la ternura. Su cita nos recuerda que las mejores cualidades necesitan cuidado delicado. La dureza daña tanto el alma como el espíritu. Su visión resuena con el llamado de Wilson a la humildad y con el llamado de NA a la guía. Juntos forman un trípode: humildad, comunidad y ternura.

Carl Jung también ofrece una visión. En Modern Man in Search of a Soul, Jung argumentó que la luz surge de la sombra. El “lado oscuro y negativo” debe enfrentarse con honestidad y cuidado. Solo entonces la integración trae plenitud. Sus ideas afirman las raíces espirituales y psicológicas del Sexto Paso.

En resumen, estos pasajes nos recuerdan que la transformación combina humildad, apoyo y cuidado delicado. Señalan tanto la sabiduría espiritual como la psicológica. El autoexamen es difícil, pero conduce a renovación y fortaleza.

Pregunta: ¿Cómo podemos tratarnos tan suavemente como el florecer de una fruta?


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Comments

6 responses to “From the Dark, Dank Recesses of Our Soul a Special Gift may Emerge – Step 6”

  1. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    I am supportive of change by doin’ service work, and helpin’ people by distributin’ flyers, and promotin’ support groups to help people. I’ve also got my peer support specialist certification to further my good causes with people that can be helped. Being easy on me, and understandin’ my situation is important to me.

  2. E-Dawg Avatar
    E-Dawg

    When someone is dealing with pain I have found that just simply being an ear goes a long way. Just sitting down with them in the same room and letting the space do the healing which God I believe is the space.
    And if there’s crying involved I will be the shoulder as well…

  3. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    A close friend lost one of her cats the other day and she was very distraught. When reaching out to her, I listened to her words. And then I listened to her pain. Instead of offering advice or telling it would be better, I simply kept listening and reflected the words she was using back to her. This validated the pain she was in. After our call, she texted appreciation that she felt heard.

    Often the simple act of being there means just that, hearing, listening and validating what they are going through. Instead of the tendency many have of offering to fix it.

    Thank you for sharing recovery with me. Grateful.

  4. BYRON Avatar

    I have a friend who experienced deep and severe trauma, As a survivor I listen and let him know he is not alone. I let him know to work the steps and seek guidance from his HP, and sponsor. I hope one day he can be free

  5. Rose Avatar
    Rose

    I have been supportive to my wife as she struggles with the stress of Covid lockdown and homeschooling our children. We do things together like cook and watch TV afterwards and go for walks. Things to create a sense of normalcy and I do these things even if I don’t feel like it at the moment, because I know it’s important to my wife and I love her deeply and want her to be happy and at peace.

  6. Bodhi Baba Avatar
    Bodhi Baba

    FEATURED POST FROM THE ZONR VAULT – “I’m not aware of any serious problems my friends are having. I’m concerned that friends don’t share with me. I think maybe my friends only share problems with family, or not at all. All I can do is try to listen and not be ego driven. But then its up to them.” (Adam – 12/5/2012)

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