The Day when Friend and Foe Took a Knee to End the Enmity that Divides – Step 3

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“Many anorexics project a world of being under control.” “For Shannon it was about hiding her terror of sex; for Ben it was about anesthetizing his  pain and fear.”  Carnes, Patrick J. (2009). Sexual Anorexia, p. 38

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Question ::: When is the last time you’ve felt a loss of control and as Lincoln says, “driven” to your knees to pray?

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Living in a Ghost Town – Rolling Stones (3:49)

Got To Be There – Micheal Jackson (4:44)

It Gets Better – The Trevor Project (2:50) 

One World, One Prayer Meditation (11:15)

Today’s SFZ explores the spiritual and emotional transformation that occurs when individuals surrender control and embrace humility. Step 3 of the recovery process emphasizes turning one’s will over to a power greater than oneself. This echoes Carl Jung’s idea that healing begins when the ego yields to something beyond its grasp. When people accept their limits, they open the door to growth.

The quote from It Works, How & Why reminds us that no one is exempt from life’s pressures. Even long after recovery begins, problems can mount. This supports Brené Brown’s belief that vulnerability is not weakness, but a pathway to resilience. Admitting we are overwhelmed is an act of courage, not failure.

The reading from One Day at a Time speaks to the futility of self-reliance in times of crisis. It mirrors the teachings of Thomas Merton, who saw surrender not as defeat, but as spiritual maturity. Surrendering fear clears space for calm and clarity.

Lincoln’s reflection illustrates the shared human struggle. His reliance on prayer shows how surrender can offer relief even in the highest office. Like Viktor Frankl taught, meaning is often found in surrender, not control.

This “knee-taking” represents more than despair—it is a symbol of unity and release. Friend and foe alike become equals in need of help. This shared act of humility dissolves division and invites peace.

 

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3 responses to “The Day when Friend and Foe Took a Knee to End the Enmity that Divides – Step 3”

  1. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    Togetherness, and remember each other when struggles are immense are definitely key to keeping on a good path I feel, away from those things that may harm us. There will be defeats, or so we may think, but where in unity one is victorious, so we all can be victorious in the same way.

  2. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    Dealing with the grief of family members going through illness. These are moments when I need the support and understanding of my higher power. Also, when stress from external challenges, like dealing with school bureaucracy, places me in a state of unregulated emotions, I ask for calm in the face of the storm. My higher power guides me to a safe harbor where I can find peace.

  3. E-dawg Avatar
    E-dawg

    The last time I got down on my knees to pray was on January 8th on the day of the fires. In the wake of that terrible tragedy, it brought the community of Altadena closer. I’ve met some neighbors I’ve never knew and we’re all getting through this together we are definitely United and not divided.

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