Planting Our Flag to Begin the Great Journey into the Unknown – Step 3

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Question ::: How is the process of discovering your own  H.P. or “unsuspected inner resource” changing your lives?

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How can trusting something bigger than ourselves help us feel stronger when we’re going through tough times?

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Today’s SFZ explores the transformative decision of Step 3 in 12-step recovery: turning one’s will over to a Higher Power. It marks a significant personal commitment to growth and healing. The Basic Text describes this as a “giant step,” emphasizing that belief in a traditional religion is not necessary—only willingness is. This echoes Carl Rogers’ idea that personal change starts with openness to experience and trust in an internal process. Rogers argued that people need conditions of acceptance to grow. In Step 3, willingness provides that condition.

The Big Book expands on this by describing how members often discover an “unsuspected inner resource.” This transformation resembles what psychologist Carl Jung called an “inner spiritual awakening.” Jung believed such awakenings were key to overcoming deep inner conflict. Here, individuals begin to see life differently. Their reactions shift. Their suffering becomes manageable through trust in something greater.

William James, an early influence on 12-step ideas, wrote that changing inner attitudes can change external reality. This matches the experience in Step 3: when people surrender control, they paradoxically gain strength. James emphasized that belief and action together spark change. In this step, the action is surrender, and the result is personal empowerment.

This decision is not passive; it requires courage and trust. By planting this flag—deciding to live differently—individuals start a profound journey. The unknown becomes less frightening when guided by trust, community, and inner strength.

 

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6 responses to “Planting Our Flag to Begin the Great Journey into the Unknown – Step 3”

  1. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    Pain has been a long hinderance of me in feeling like irrationality is before me, but my inner senses have started thinking more in these past few years on what could be the outcome, and to put up with a bit more pain, while in study + research to end my pain. My inner sense of study, and wants of knowing something will come have kept me knowing something is going to occur in the right way for me.

  2. Zen Avatar
    Zen

    The process of beginning to trust something larger than ourselves can allow us to stop taking on so much burden in our lives. Trusting in a higher power relives the stress of taking on life’s challenges.

  3. E-dawg Avatar
    E-dawg

    My higher power is definitely patient with me as I am going through the process of life sober I believe that the unsuspected inner self is the holy spirit working through me and I’m grateful to be of sound of mind and do his will as best I can.

  4. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    Let go and let God. I take great comfort in knowing that I do not have to carry the burdens of the world. That within each of us is something greater than us. It reminds me of the song, “Lean on me” when times are hard or seemingly impossible, I’ve got a friend to lean on.

  5. Br. Buddha Avatar
    Br. Buddha

    Good morning everyone + happy Friday. Here is today’s thought. When we become sober people, we experience a new life, a new hope, + a new freedom.

    This weekend marks the beginning of Gay Pride in West Hollywood. It’s a time to be proud of the people we are. It is a time to celebrate a wonderful life given to us by our Creator. It is not a time for drunken revelry.

    So, let’s be sober. Let’s be proud. Let’s be in love + give love. Happy Gay Pride to all. Blessings. BB

  6. Adam Avatar
    Adam

    Things just seem to flow. Less stress. Things like meeting up with long lost friends, approved for home loan, and even work is going well.

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