Let’s Flip the Misery and Truly Be “Happy, Joyous, & Free” – Step 5

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“If one speaks or acts
with a cruel mind, misery
follows, as the cart follows
the horse … .

– the Dhammapada (circa 500 BC) a version of Buddhist scripture

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Provide some examples of where your actions or words caused either joy or misery, lately?

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If misery and joy both come from our choices, what should we choose today?

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The Dhammapada – Sayings of the Buddha (1:24:41)LP

I Will Follow – U2 (3:37)

Buddhist Hz Negativity Cleansing Meditation (9 hours)

English Analysis

The passages highlight the tension between misery and freedom in recovery. The Basic Text warns that relapse leads to death and long suffering. This echoes Viktor Frankl in Man’s Search for Meaning. Frankl observed that despair thrives when people lose purpose. Recovery asks people to choose life and connection over repeated misery.

Next, The Big Book states that misery does not come from God but from human action. This view aligns with Aristotle in Nicomachean Ethics. Aristotle taught that happiness flows from virtuous habits, not chance or punishment. When people act with awareness, they shape a life of balance and joy. Misery arises when choices drift from virtue and responsibility.

Finally, the Dhammapada offers an ancient reminder. A cruel mind breeds misery just as a shadow follows its source. A pure mind nurtures happiness as naturally as light brings warmth. This insight resembles Frankl’s emphasis on inner freedom even under suffering. Both suggest that thought and intention direct human experience.

Together, these teachings stress personal responsibility in recovery. They reject the idea that misery is inevitable or divine. Instead, they invite people to live with discipline, clarity, and compassion. When one commits to action grounded in love, joy follows naturally.


Spanish Translation

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“Las recaídas son a menudo fatales. Hemos asistido a funerales de seres queridos que murieron por recaída. Murieron de varias maneras. A menudo vemos a recaídos perdidos durante muchos años, viviendo en miseria.” (El Texto Básico, p. 79)

“Estamos seguros de que Dios [o Nuestro Poder Superior] quiere que seamos felices, alegres y libres. [Sin embargo] … está claro que hicimos nuestra propia miseria. Dios no lo hizo. Evita entonces la fabricación deliberada de miseria…” (El Gran Libro, p. 133)

“Si uno habla o actúa con una mente cruel, la miseria sigue, como el carro sigue al caballo… Si uno habla o actúa con una mente pura, la felicidad sigue, como la sombra sigue a su fuente.” – El Dhammapada (circa 500 a.C.), versión de la escritura budista


Análisis

Los pasajes destacan la tensión entre miseria y libertad en la recuperación. El Texto Básico advierte que la recaída conduce a la muerte y al sufrimiento. Esto recuerda a Viktor Frankl en El hombre en busca de sentido. Frankl observó que la desesperación surge cuando las personas pierden propósito. La recuperación invita a elegir vida y conexión en lugar de miseria repetida.

Después, El Gran Libro afirma que la miseria no viene de Dios sino de la acción humana. Esta visión coincide con Aristóteles en Ética a Nicómaco. Aristóteles enseñó que la felicidad surge de hábitos virtuosos, no del azar ni del castigo. Cuando las personas actúan con conciencia, moldean una vida de equilibrio y alegría.

Finalmente, el Dhammapada ofrece un recordatorio antiguo. Una mente cruel engendra miseria, como la sombra sigue a su fuente. Una mente pura fomenta la felicidad, como la luz trae calor. Esta visión se asemeja al énfasis de Frankl en la libertad interior frente al sufrimiento. Ambos sugieren que el pensamiento y la intención guían la experiencia humana.

Juntas, estas enseñanzas subrayan la responsabilidad personal en la recuperación. Rechazan la idea de que la miseria sea inevitable o divina. Invitan a vivir con disciplina, claridad y compasión. Cuando uno actúa con amor, la alegría sigue naturalmente.

Si la miseria y la alegría vienen de nuestras elecciones, ¿qué deberíamos elegir hoy?

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Comments

8 responses to “Let’s Flip the Misery and Truly Be “Happy, Joyous, & Free” – Step 5”

  1. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    I think reflections on my positive growth or developments has brought me great strength, knowledge, and joyous peace of mind. Now misery is when I give into that temptation by the tempters that I really don’t want to give into.

  2. Ari L Avatar
    Ari L

    I like to focus on little ways I can make the people around me happy. I have a ritual my mom got me into which is asking someone’s favorite part of the day. I think it’s a great way to check in on someone and get them into gratitude, at least subtly.

  3. Eli🌱🫶🏾🫡🪱 Avatar
    Eli🌱🫶🏾🫡🪱

    Things that used to make me miserable have been bringing me joy. Calling family, working, and talking with new people has added to my life instead of detracting from it.

  4. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    Just last night in conversation a friend mentioned that they had enjoyed sharing recovery together and the wisdom we share through this forum. I appreciated that my experiences and shares had been found as benificial. We all get by with the love and support of our community, whatever our community is.

    Each of us, we all matter. Each of us contribute in ways that we may not see at the time, we may never know the way we touch another. Yet, moments like yesterday remind me that our contributions matter.

    Thank you for sharing recovery with me. Grateful.

  5. E-Dawg Avatar
    E-Dawg

    Today’s question reminds me of proverbs 18:21.
    Death and life are in the power of the tongue. It talks about the Power of Words…
    They can bring destruction or well-being and healing.
    Words can be used as a weapon to harm or to uplift and encourage. I really try my best to encourage people but it’s difficult when someone doesn’t do their part to keep things running smoothly in a congregant living setting… this is the true test of the tongue.

  6. Joel Relampagos Avatar

    The glass is either half full or half empty. What would you say your mindset is like and how has it affected your way of living?

  7. Adam Avatar
    Adam

    I caused some misery by not being forthright with my existing real estate agent and going to another. Still patching that up. I believe I gave the girl I’m buying a home from some solace and joy in sharing my personal touching story. She can now hopefully part with the home that she loves without any resentment or sadness in her heart.

  8. Margot E. Avatar
    Margot E.

    I sometimes find it easy to see how I create my own misery – always in hindsight. My life is constantly changing: births, deaths, changes (including “reversals of fortune”). My interpretation of events, for me, creates a range of emotions from joy to misery. Do I see my circumstances as abundance or as lack? The ball will be pitched – I get to choose whether I swing at it or not.

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