What it Means to be ‘Living in the Solution’ – Step 6

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“The greatest challenge to any thinker is stating the problem in a way that will allow a solution.”- Bertrand Russell (1872 – 1970) British philosopher/mathematician

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English Analysis

Living in the solution means practicing constructive behavior in daily life. It Works, How & Why highlights readiness through positive action. We cannot stop at recognition of faults; we must replace them with healthier patterns.

Bertrand Russell reminds us that clarity creates solutions. His words echo the Twelve Step spirit. By framing destructive behavior clearly, we open the path toward constructive choices. In this sense, knowledge enables freedom.

Transitioning to The Big Book, we find harmony in shared purpose. Step Six requires not just personal readiness but communal solidarity. Brotherly action transforms recovery from isolation into connection. Agreement builds strength where division once weakened.

Constructive behavior and brotherly harmony intersect in meaningful ways. Aristotle taught in Nicomachean Ethics that virtue arises from habit. We practice virtues repeatedly until they form character. Similarly, recovery invites daily repetition until health becomes second nature.

Furthermore, Viktor Frankl in Man’s Search for Meaning argued for finding purpose even in suffering. He believed purpose arises when we choose how to act. Step Six mirrors this vision. It shifts us from destructive instinct to meaningful choice.

Therefore, to live in the solution means more than avoiding harm. It demands deliberate practice of good, the pursuit of unity, and the courage to frame problems clearly. Each thinker affirms that change rests on choice, habit, and clarity.


Traducción al Español

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“PRACTICING CONSTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR”
“Part of the process of becoming entirely ready involves practicing constructive behavior. Because we now understand and recognize our destructive behaviors, we’ll find the willingness to practice constructive behaviors instead.”
(It Works, How & Why, p. 47)

“ACTING WITH BROTHERLY HARMONY”
“The tremendous fact for every one of us is that we have discovered a common solution. We have a way out on which we can absolutely agree, and upon which we can join in brotherly and harmonious action.”
(The Big Book, p. 17)

“The greatest challenge to any thinker is stating the problem in a way that will allow a solution.”
— Bertrand Russell (1872–1970), British philosopher / mathematician


Análisis en Español

Vivir en la solución significa practicar conductas constructivas en la vida diaria. It Works, How & Why señala que la preparación se demuestra con acción positiva. No basta reconocer fallas; debemos sustituirlas con patrones más sanos.

Bertrand Russell nos recuerda que la claridad genera soluciones. Sus palabras reflejan el espíritu de los Doce Pasos. Al definir claramente lo destructivo, abrimos el camino hacia elecciones constructivas. En este sentido, el conocimiento ofrece libertad.

Al pasar a The Big Book, encontramos armonía en un propósito compartido. El Sexto Paso requiere disposición personal y solidaridad comunitaria. La acción fraterna transforma la recuperación del aislamiento en conexión. El acuerdo crea fuerza donde antes hubo división.

El comportamiento constructivo y la armonía fraterna se unen en forma significativa. Aristóteles enseñó en Ética a Nicómaco que la virtud nace del hábito. Practicamos virtudes hasta que forman carácter. De manera similar, la recuperación invita a repetir cada día hasta que la salud sea costumbre.

Además, Viktor Frankl en El hombre en busca de sentido defendió encontrar propósito incluso en el sufrimiento. Creía que el sentido surge al elegir cómo actuar. El Sexto Paso refleja esta visión. Nos mueve del instinto destructivo a la elección significativa.

Vivir en la solución no significa solo evitar el daño. Exige práctica deliberada del bien, búsqueda de unidad y valentía para definir problemas con claridad. Cada pensador afirma que el cambio se basa en elección, hábito y claridad.

Pregunta: ¿Cómo puede ayudarnos practicar buenos hábitos cada día a resolver nuestros mayores problemas?

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9 responses to “What it Means to be ‘Living in the Solution’ – Step 6”

  1. Ari L Avatar
    Ari L

    Little habits make big changes. I think it’s like the old adage that to move a mountain you have to first move a stone. Sometimes just improving our daily habits, like hygiene or exercise or creativity, ends up becoming a daily ritual of removing stones from the mountain. Before we even realize it, the mountain has shrunk greatly. At least, that is the way for me.

  2. Elexi W.S.A. Avatar

    I think when I set out to accomplish different tasks in life, and make appointments it makes me want to practice good habits, so that I know I’ll get them done. Doin’ sports all my life in my younger years, and stayin’ mentally plus physically fit helps me to build a lot of endurance. In abstinence, endurance to stay away from harmful substances is so important. People go out on the hustle and bustle everyday to leave another behind and compete for resources at times, somethin’ I’ve never liked to do in life by the way although I did excel at sports. When I got on the treadmill, and did 3 miles in a half cardio non-stop it made me realize of course I can accomplish 5 miles non-stop. I plan to do this week as a goal. Settin’ goals, even simple ones have been such accomplishments, and a relief when dealin’ with not wantin’ to put substances I no longer want in my body.

  3. Eli🌱🫶🏾🫡🪱 Avatar
    Eli🌱🫶🏾🫡🪱

    Running into people I’ve known from previous living situations has been wonderful and terrible. I’m glad to see folks doing well, and upset to learn about people who didn’t make it. There isn’t any ‘shifting focus’ onto the positive for me, as such. I t doesn’t help me to ignore loss. But I focus on people who I can help, which in part resolves that feeling of helplessness.

  4. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    The good behaviors become habits and help me push old patterns and bad habits out. We all have the same 24 hours and how we invest our time is in direct relation to what we achieve and solve in life. This can be a hard pill to swallow at times as we realize that the responsibility is solely on each of us. Yet, it is in reality the most liberating of truths knowing that we can change our path and move in the direction we want to go.

    Thank you for sharing recovery with me. Grateful.

  5. Simon Yebio Avatar
    Simon Yebio

    Brain judges, brain thinks,brain wonders….I do what is in front of me….ahhhhhh

  6. Adam Avatar
    Adam

    Not a lot. Just not drinking and still going to meetings. Waiting for the holidays to be over and get my life back in to a regular rhythm so I don’t feel so anxious.

  7. Margot E. Avatar
    Margot E.

    I am learning that saying something (anything) is impossible sets it up to be just that. Sometimes what I say is impossible is simply something I do not want to do; or it means that I am unwilling to ask for help in seeking a solution.

  8. Slim Jim Avatar
    Slim Jim

    Tonite’s speaker runs a recovery outfit and threw a refrigerator down the stairs. That prolly doesn’t qualify as constructive behavior. Her solution was to pause before actions. Sounds simple enug. And its something I need to do more often next time I try to beat red lights on the streets.

  9. easy does it Avatar
    easy does it

    constructive behavior.. what a concept..lol, yes to frame a problem in such a way that allows a solution.
    lately ive been keeping in touch with my sponsor following direction, which is always a good answer to stay in the solution.

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