The Secrets to Gracefully “Place Principles Before Personalities” – Trad. 12

AND KNOWING IS ONLY HALF THE BATTLE - "... we are to place principles before personalities; ... we are to practice a genuine humility. This to the end that our great blessings may never spoil us; that we shall forever live in thankful contemplation of ... [our Higher Power] ." (12 & 12, p. 192) "He who merely knows right principles is not equal to him who loves them."  - Confucius (551 BC - 479 BC) Chinese philosopher / teacher Today's SFZ How have you struggled with putting  "principles before personalities", lately? Eberg - The Right Thing to Do (4:27)…

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The 1st Law of Metaphysics: “When the Solution is Simple, God is Answering” – Step 12

THE FOLLY OF OUR BEST THINKING – “We have learned that if a solution isn’t practical, it isn’t spiritual.  In the past, we made simple  situations into problems; we made mountains out of molehills. Our best ideas got us here.”  (12 & 12, p. 52)

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A Few Simple Ways to Rekindle the Resplendent Joy We had in Our Youth – Step 12

LETTING THE JOY SHINE THRU IN ALL WE DO –  “Yes, we are a vision of hope.” “The joy that we have in living clean is an attraction to the addict who still suffers.”  “The steps are a new beginning!” (The Basic Text, p. 53)

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How We might Prevent Our Good Intentions from Washing Away Before Our Eyes – Step 12

“You ask me why I do not write something … . I think one’s feelings waste themselves in words, they ought all to be distilled into actions and into actions which bring results.” – Florence Nightingale (1820 – 1910) English nurse in the Crimean War on getting into action

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One Wonderful Way We Experience the Meaning of Life – Step 12

A LIFE IN FULL SERVICE OF OTHERS – “Life will take on new meaning. To watch people recover, to see them help others, to watch loneliness vanish, to see a fellowship grow up about you, to have a host of friends – this is an experience you must not miss.  We know you will not want to miss it.” (The Big Book, p. 89)

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Exploring the Synchronicity axiom: “What You Think About – You Bring About” – Step 12

BECOMING WHOM WE WANT TO BE - "We become able to make wise and lov- ing decisions, based on principles and ideals that have real value in our lives. By shaping our thoughts with spiritual ideals, we are freed to become who we want to be." (How Al-Anon Works, p. 56) THE GLOW - "S/He has been granted a gift which amounts to a new state of consciousness and being. S/He has been set on a path which tells him /her is real- ly going somewhere, that life is not a dead end, not something to be endured or mastered.…

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