FROM TOLERANCE TO ONENESS - "Finally, we begin to see that all people, including ourselves, are to some extent emotionally ill as well as frequent- ly wrong, and then we approach true tolerance and see what real love for our fellows actually means." (12 & 12, p. 92) "I'll tell you what I did need to learn was tolerance, and I think I've been actually given a daily opportunity to practice that, and it's ... it's ... and I know that that sounds almost like a backhanded slap, and it is in a way because I haven't been successful at…