“He made us realize, we are our brother’s keeper and that our brothers come in all colors.” – U.S. Boxer Muhammad Ali on Nelson Mandela, 1st native African President of South Africa (on selflessness)
THE GROUP COMES FIRST – “Our survival is directly related to the survival of the group and the Fellowship.” “This admission was the starting point of our recovery and is a primary point of unity for the Fellowship.” “… we find that what is best for the group is usually good for us.” (The Basic Text, p. 62 on selflessness)
SELFLESSNESS AIDS THE NEEDS OF THE MANY – ” … no society of men and women ever had a more urgent need for continuous effectiveness and permanent unity. We … see that we must work together and hang together, else most of us will finally die alone.” (The Big Book, p. 561)
“He made us realize, we are our brother’s keeper and that our brothers come in all colors.”
What acts of selflessness have you engaged in, lately?
Freedom XIV by Khalil Gibran
And an orator said, “Speak to us of Freedom.”
And he answered:
At the city gate and by your fireside I have seen you prostrate yourself and worship your own freedom,
Even as slaves humble themselves before a tyrant and praise him though he slays them.
Ay, in the grove of the temple and in the shadow of the citadel I have seen the freest among you wear their freedom as a yoke and a handcuff.
And my heart bled within me; for you can only be free when even the desire of seeking freedom becomes a harness to you, and when you cease to speak of freedom as a goal and a fulfillment.
You shall be free indeed when your days are not without a care nor your nights without a want and a grief,
But rather when these things girdle your life and yet you rise above them naked and unbound.
And how shall you rise beyond your days and nights unless you break the chains which you at the dawn of your understanding have fastened around your noon hour?
In truth that which you call freedom is the strongest of these chains, though its links glitter in the sun and dazzle the eyes.
And what is it but fragments of your own self you would discard that you may become free?
If it is an unjust law you would abolish, that law was written with your own hand upon your own forehead.
You cannot erase it by burning your law books nor by washing the foreheads of your judges, though you pour the sea upon them.
And if it is a despot you would dethrone, see first that his throne erected within you is destroyed.
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For how can a tyrant rule the free and the proud, but for a tyranny in their own freedom and a shame in their won pride?
And if it is a care you would cast off, that care has been chosen by you rather than imposed upon you.
And if it is a fear you would dispel, the seat of that fear is in your heart and not in the hand of the feared.
Verily all things move within your being in constant half embrace, the desired and the dreaded, the repugnant and the cherished, the pursued and that which you would escape.
These things move within you as lights and shadows in pairs that cling.
And when the shadow fades and is no more, the light that lingers becomes a shadow to another light.
And thus your freedom when it loses its fetters becomes itself the fetter of a greater freedom.
I just have to comment that I sooo love that UNITY song by Queen Latifa. The song reminds me that being a part of the unity is special and wonderful. The trick is how to honor ones own integrity without the ego getting defensive. It feels like an inner struggle for me at times.
In Al-Anon I struggle with group consciences often. All too often, I find that others are trying to control me and the process. How dare they??? Don’t they know that my way is the best way? The only way? I have too much evidence that working from my head usually ends in a way that benefits no one (i.e. failure). When I am open to the experience, strength and hope of many others I know that my Higher Power can speak through us all. Sometimes I am in too much of a hurry to do something – anything. When all the time I needed to be still to hear the collective wisdom of the group conscience.