When Confrontation Comes, “Remember, You don’t Choose Love; Love Chooses You” – Step 8

“Remember that you don’t choose love; love chooses you. All you really can do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes to your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing then reach out and give it away.”
– Kent Nerburn (1946 – ) U.S. spiritual author
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Truce Extended and Families Reunited lend out Grace and “Good Works” as a “Shield against Calamity” – Step 8

“He who carries out one good deed acquires one advocate on his own behalf, and he who commits one transgression acquires one accuser against himself. Repentance and good works are like a shield against calamity.”

– The Talmud (200 ~ 500 CE) a compendium of oral Jewish law

 

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When do We Really Cause Harm … People, Places, & Things, Revisited – Step 8

HARM DOES NOT HAPPEN IN A VACUUM – ” … Step Eight isn’t simply a restatement of our inventory.  We are now looking for the people, places, and institutions we harmed, not just the types of harm we inflicted. [We] didn’t just lie; we lied to someone. [We] didn’t just steal; we stole from various people.” (It Works, How & Why, p. 56 to cause harm)

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The Reasons We Plea … “Relieve Me of the Bondage of Self” – Step 8

THE BOND OF SELFLESSNESS –  “Make us servants of Your will and grant us a bond of selflessness, that this may truly be Your work, not ours – in order that no addict, anywhere, need to die from the horrors of addiction.”  (The Basic Text,p. xi on the self)

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Where Love, Faith & Willingness Vanquish All Fears – Step 8

NO TIME TO WASTE. JUMP INTO ACTION & OCCUPY LOVE TODAY!  “But if a willing start is made, then the great advantages of doing this will so quickly reveal themselves that the pain will be lessened as one obstacle after another melts away.” (12 & 12, pp. 77 – 78)

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