How Self-Acceptance Zero’s in on Our True Purpose in Life – Step 1

TO ACCEPT YOURSELF BEGIN IN THE HEART –

“Changing such self-
defeating attitudes is es-
sential to recovery … .” “We
are seeking genuine change,
not denial. And the first step in
changing our attitudes is be-
coming aware of them, a pro-
cess that rarely happens
overnight.” (How Al
Anon Works, p. 77)

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Rebranding “PNP” to Get Ready for What Comes Next – Step 1

CUZ “PNP” (PROGRESS, NOT PERFECTION) GETS US WHERE WE NEED TO BE –

“The point is, that
we are willing to grow
along spiritual lines. The
principles we have set down
are guides to progress.  We
claim spiritual progress ra
ther than spiritual per
fection.” (The Big
Book, p. 60)

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Why Ours is the Most Progressive Movement Ever Conceived – Step 1

“In a country that was built on a protest.” “You say to protest is wrong because you spoke out of turn. Because you spoke up for people that were marginalized … you spoke up for people that we don’t want to care about. In a country built on people who speak out of turn, who spoke out of turn, who thought out of turn, to build a nation. I come from a long line of people who have resisted.” – Rep. Justin J. Pearson on desire (1994 – ) was one of two Black representatives expelled from the Tennessee state house on 4/6/2023. The firsts since the Civil War.

Link to Pearson’s twitter video of the above quote.

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As You Seek Recovery, Try a Brand, New Way to Live as the First day of Kwanzaa Begins – Step 9

HOW WE STAY AFLOAT –

“We must live and
work together as a
group to ensure that in
a storm our ship does not
sink and our members do not
perish. With faith in a Pow-
er greater than ourselves,
hard work, and unity we
will survive … .” (The
Basic Text, p. 63)

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The One Special Gift that can Heal the Deepest Wound; Especially when the Cause was Our Own – Step 9

THE GREAT HEALER –

” … humility had
brought strength out
of   weakness.”   ” [And]
pain had  been the  price of
admission into a new life.”  “… 
a measure  of  humility,  which
we soon  discovered  to  be a
healer of pain.  We began to
fear  painless,  and desire
humility more than ev-
er.”   (12 & 12, p. 75)

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How We Make Amends for Our Most Egregious Transgressions without Shame or Reservation – Step 9

A “TRUE SPIRIT OF HUMILITY & LOVE” MENDS THE PANGS OF SHAME –  “… we ask ourselves if we are doing this because we are truly sorry and have a genuine desire to make reparations … . If we answer ‘yes’ to this question, we can be assured that we are approaching our amends in the true spirit of humility and love.” (It Works, How & Why, p. 62)

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