Unclenching Our Vise-like Grip on Resentments – Step 8
LETTING GO OF SELF-OBSESSION - "Most of us owe amends to at least one person who has also harmed us. Perhaps we haven't truly forgiven that person yet. We must let go of resentments and focus on our part in the conflicts in our lives. We won't get better...if we are still in the grip of self-obsession." (It Works, How & Why, p. 55 on self-delusion) FREES US FROM SELF-DELUSION'S PRISON - "Some of us, though, tripped over a very different snag. We clung to the claim that when drinking we never hurt anybody but ourselves." (12 & 12, p,…