A Few Ways We can Honor the Veterans of Wars at Home, Abroad and the Wars within the Soul – Step 8

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AND BY LETTING LOVE TAKE ROOT AND FLOW – “By giving unconditional love in the fellowship, we become more loving, and by sharing spiritual growth we become more spiritual.” [ Thusly, ] (The Basic Text, p. 82)

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Additionally, how have you responded with unconditional love when faced with adversity, lately?

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What small act of kindness could you do today to help someone—and help yourself grow too?

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Analysis (English, ≤250 words)

In How Al-Anon Works (p. 86), the text invites us to see beyond behavior toward the untouched core of humanity. This shift from judgment to service echoes Viktor Frankl’s insight in Man’s Search for Meaning (1946): purpose is found through self-transcendence, not self-indulgence. When we focus on service, we dissolve false pride and discover healing through humility before a Higher Power.

Similarly, The Basic Text (p. 82) teaches that unconditional love expands both giver and receiver. Martin Luther King Jr. (1967) described this expansion as “the creative force of love that unites rather than divides.” Each small act of giving plants the seed of collective restoration. Through such acts, the “wars within the soul” quiet, replaced by gratitude and connection.

Aeschylus reminds us that “from a small seed a mighty trunk may grow.” His wisdom mirrors the Wellbriety teaching that “service strengthens the roots of our sobriety” (Coyhis, 2006). Service and forgiveness become tools of rebirth. Thus, Step 8 becomes not a list of debts but an awakening to shared humanity. When we honor those who fought outer wars and our own inner battles, compassion grows stronger than fear.


Traducción al español

LAS FORMAS EN QUE PODEMOS HONRAR A LOS VETERANOS DE LAS GUERRAS EN EL MUNDO Y DEL ALMA – Paso 8

CAMBIANDO NUESTRO ENFOQUE DEL YO AL SERVICIO
“Al cambiar nuestro enfoque lejos del comportamiento objetable y mirar más profundamente, reconocemos una parte de cada ser humano que permanece intacta por la enfermedad, la parte de cada uno de nosotros que merece amor y respeto incondicional…” (How Al Anon Works, p. 86)

Y DEJANDO QUE EL AMOR ECHARA RAÍCES Y FLUYERA
“Al dar amor incondicional en el compañerismo, nos volvemos más amorosos, y al compartir el crecimiento espiritual nos volvemos más espirituales. Las palabras no pueden describir la conciencia espiritual que recibimos cuando hemos dado algo, por pequeño que sea, a otra persona.” (The Basic Text, p. 82)

“De una pequeña semilla puede crecer un tronco poderoso.”
– Aeschylus (525 a.C. – 426 a.C.), poeta griego y veterano de las Guerras Greco-Persas

Análisis (≤250 palabras)

En How Al-Anon Works (p. 86), el texto nos invita a ver más allá del comportamiento y hacia el núcleo intacto de la humanidad. Este cambio del juicio al servicio refleja la visión de Viktor Frankl en Man’s Search for Meaning (1946): el propósito se encuentra al trascender el yo. Cuando nos enfocamos en servir, disolvemos el falso orgullo y hallamos sanación en la humildad ante un Poder Superior.

De igual modo, The Basic Text (p. 82) enseña que el amor incondicional amplía tanto al que da como al que recibe. Martin Luther King Jr. (1967) llamó a este impulso “la fuerza creativa del amor que une en lugar de dividir.” Cada pequeño acto de entrega siembra una semilla de restauración colectiva. Así, las “guerras del alma” se aquietan y surgen la gratitud y la conexión.

Aeschylus nos recuerda que “de una pequeña semilla puede crecer un tronco poderoso.” Su sabiduría refleja la enseñanza del movimiento Wellbriety: “el servicio fortalece las raíces de nuestra sobriedad” (Coyhis, 2006). El servicio y el perdón se vuelven herramientas de renacimiento. Así, el Paso 8 deja de ser una lista de deudas y se convierte en un despertar hacia la humanidad compartida.

Pregunta:
¿Qué pequeño acto de bondad podrías hacer hoy para ayudar a alguien y crecer tú también?

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6 responses to “A Few Ways We can Honor the Veterans of Wars at Home, Abroad and the Wars within the Soul – Step 8”

  1. Eli???????????????????? Avatar
    Eli????????????????????

    Practicing acceptance. It can be difficult, and I don’t always achieve what I intend to. I often fail to be totally accepting at all. To be clear: being accepting does not mean being agreeing, condoning, encouraging, or nice. But it’s doing my best to be helpful where I am capable and not doing harm to myself or others where I can.

    It’s acting in good faith, and abandoning my rampant desire to be right. It’s not avoiding arguments or avoiding sharing my beliefs, but it’s also holding my tongue and changing my tone where it ultimately works against my actual values. I’m not good at that last part at all yet. But I’m tired of the trouble.

  2. Neyun Uzdlabayoh Avatar
    Neyun Uzdlabayoh

    What small act of kindness could you do today to help someone—and help yourself grow too? ~

    Being patient with others and sharing my spaces as they share theirs with me ????

  3. Lotus W.S.A. Avatar

    I do prefer to be kind, yet will always stand my ground when need be if someone needs to know where I stand. Thinking of others is of importance to me, although someone thought I was selfish before, probably strangely because I wouldn’t share my mind. Anonymity and thinking of others are two different spectrums. Being kind when I can to someone or any beings worth it is rewarding to me(moi), because it brings karma that’s on my side to me. What I can bestow on others right, is that the nature of our words are of importance, because it can keep things worthwhile on our side or either cause only bad karmic occurrences in our lives. People wanting to really overcome problems should keep that in mind.

  4. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    Unconditional love, like all other healthy behaviors starts with unconditionally love myself. This also starts with rigorous honesty as a foundational cornerstone. Today when things are not going well, or not yet accomplishing a goal, instead of over critical self destruction, which in the past would lead to using, I am capable of unconditionally loving myself through the pain.

    Thank you for sharing recovery with me. Grateful.

  5. E-Dawg Avatar
    E-Dawg

    Today I’m volunteering for a wonderful family who’s getting ready to move back in their house after the Eaton Canyon fires… being selfless and helping others helps me with my walk in recovery, helps me with my relationship with Jesus and gives me self esteem … and I will be making some phone calls today thanking my veteran friends for their service…

  6. Margot E. Avatar
    Margot E.

    FEATURED POST FROM THE ZONR VAULT – I went to a 70’s party last night and I began to remember what that time of my life was like. I remember feeling unloved, even though I had two children who I love very much. I remember feeling lost with no anchor, no rudder, no idea of which way to shore. I have been in 12-Step rooms for 9 years now. Today I am learning about loving everyone, forgiveness, and the gratitude which forms the foundation for a more joyous life. Today Al-Anon is teaching me how to love, how to be of service, and above all, how to let go. I am nobody else’s Higher Power.

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