The Greatest Gift We Can Give – Step 12

Surreal Big Gift being Pushed

BE THE MESSAGE IN EVERY WAY –

“The twelfth step suggests that we continue to practice our new way of acting upon life ‘in all our affairs … .’ ” “Applying these principles in all our affairs means that we are no longer ruled by a fear of admitting our mistakes. We have the integrity to show the world our true selves.” (Over Eaters Anon., p. 104-105)

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How have you shared your own “experience, strength, and hope”,  lately?

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Be Yourself – Audioslave (4:42)

Carl Rogers Animation on Self-Actualization: Becoming a Person (2:25)

Ascending to Your True Self Meditation (8:15)

Analysis: Living the Message

The Twelfth Step invites a profound transformation. Overeaters Anonymous urges us to practice these principles everywhere. We no longer hide behind masks of perfection. Integrity allows us to reveal our true selves. This honesty builds a bridge to others. We share our struggles and our victories.

Carl Rogers believed experience holds the highest authority. Our past failures become our greatest assets. We offer hope by sharing our survival. Brené Brown echoes this sentiment in The Gifts of Imperfection. She believes vulnerability births love and joy (Brown, 2010, p. 10). By showing our scars, we invite others to heal. This authentic sharing serves as a lighthouse.

The Higher Power guides this process of recovery. The Red Road to Wellbriety offers deep indigenous wisdom. “Healing comes from the heart of the community” (White Bison, 2002, p. 143). We find strength when we walk together. Each story adds a thread to the tapestry. Our journey proves that change is possible. We give this gift freely to everyone.

References

Brown, B. (2010). The gifts of imperfection. Hazelden Publishing.

White Bison. (2002). The red road to wellbriety. White Bison, Inc.

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Traducción al Español

Citas, Títulos y Referencias

EL MAYOR REGALO QUE PODEMOS DAR – PASO 12

SER EL MENSAJE EN TODOS LOS SENTIDOS

“El duodécimo paso sugiere que continuemos practicando nuestra nueva forma de actuar ante la vida ‘en todos nuestros asuntos…’. Aplicar estos principios en todos nuestros asuntos significa que ya no estamos gobernados por el miedo a admitir nuestros errores. Tenemos la integridad para mostrar al mundo nuestro verdadero yo.” (Comedores Compulsivos Anónimos, p. 104-105)

“NUESTRA EXPERIENCIA, FORTALEZA Y ESPERANZA”

“Ahora debemos preguntarnos, ¿cuál es exactamente ‘el mensaje’ que estamos tratando de llevar? ¿Es que nunca más tendremos que usar drogas? Primero y ante todo, compartimos nuestra experiencia, fortaleza y esperanza.” (Funciona: cómo y por qué, p. 86)

LA EXPERIENCIA COMO AUTORIDAD

“La experiencia es, para mí, la máxima autoridad. Es la base de la autoridad porque siempre puede ser verificada de nuevas formas primarias. De esta manera, su frecuente error o falibilidad está siempre abierta a la corrección.”

— Carl Rogers (1902 – 1987)


Análisis

El Duodécimo Paso invita a una transformación profunda. Comedores Compulsivos Anónimos nos insta a practicar estos principios en todas partes. Ya no nos escondemos tras máscaras de perfección. La integridad nos permite revelar nuestro verdadero ser. Esta honestidad construye un puente hacia los demás. Compartimos nuestras luchas y nuestras victorias.

Carl Rogers creía que la experiencia posee la máxima autoridad. Nuestros fracasos pasados se convierten en nuestros mayores activos. Ofrecemos esperanza al compartir nuestra supervivencia. Brené Brown hace eco de este sentimiento en Los dones de la imperfección. Ella cree que la vulnerabilidad da a luz al amor y la alegría (Brown, 2010, p. 10). Al mostrar nuestras cicatrices, invitamos a otros a sanar. Este intercambio auténtico sirve como un faro.

El Poder Superior guía este proceso de recuperación. The Red Road to Wellbriety ofrece una profunda sabiduría indígena. “La sanación proviene del corazón de la comunidad” (White Bison, 2002, p. 143). Encontramos fuerza cuando caminamos juntos. Cada historia añade un hilo al tapiz. Nuestro viaje demuestra que el cambio es posible. Entregamos este regalo libremente a todos.


Pregunta Concluyente

Si ayudas a alguien más hoy, ¿cómo podría eso ayudarte a ti a sentirte mejor también?

Zonr logo on the term: experience

Comments

8 responses to “The Greatest Gift We Can Give – Step 12”

  1. eli Avatar
    eli

    Lately I’ve been focusing on talking with newcomers. I don’t feel I have any advice, really- I can just share how I handle my own difficulties. It’s good to be reminded that that’s enough.

  2. VLeigh Avatar
    VLeigh

    A coworker recently shared that he had struggled with addiction in the past. Without going too much into detail, I shared with him that I am right there with him, he is not alone. This job was born out of my community service hours for my DUI, so they were aware that something was going on with me , even if they weren’t sure that it was actually full-blown addiction. It was nice to tell him a little about my journey, and how I’ve progressed in sobriety.

  3. E-Dawg Avatar
    E-Dawg

    Yes I have shared my experience strength and hope today as a matter of fact I shared it with somebody new to the program, I shared what happened what it was like and what it’s like now and we’ll see if they take hold I told this person it’s all about suggestions the choice is yours I can suggest what to do I can tell you how it’s working for me on a daily basis…thankyou Jesus!

  4. Phil d Avatar
    Phil d

    Besides honesty, being of service has been the most rewarding and effective way to maintain my recovery. From getting commitments to carpooling addicts to meetings. The best feeling is when a newcomer asks me questions about overcoming difficulties in recovery that I’ve got an answer to from experience. Service reinvigorates my sobriety every time

  5. Sabrina J Avatar
    Sabrina J

    It is in the rooms, on Zonr, during iOP sessions and in conversations with friends and family that, when prompted or appropriate, I share my experience, strength and hope, with others. Equally so, I endeavor to listen to each person in that circle, knowing that when I speak, I repeat what I know, when I listen, I learn.

    Thank you for sharing recovery with me. Grateful.

  6. Chi Chi Avatar
    Chi Chi

    How have I shared my own “experience, strength and hope”, lately? ….. Well in many ways but its my strength that I believe has been at the forefront and thats what allows me to help others..

  7. Br. Buddha Avatar
    Br. Buddha

    Good morning everyone + Happy Friday. I was once asked by a member of our fellowship if I would like to participate in a pyramid scheme. I would have an opportunity to become very wealthy. I looked at him + said NO. I am s sober man, not only sober from drink, but I try to live a sober lifestyle in all of my affairs. I am here to spread the message of hope + to live as a holy + loving man. Ask yourself, how do you practice + live in sobriety in all of your affairs. Blessings. BB

  8. Margot E. Avatar
    Margot E.

    I have come to realize that I am sometimes mean to other people. I notice it on the freeway every day. I hate to let cars get in front of me – I turn into a really mean person (or whatever you might call me from your car). I have also noticed that when someone else is in the car, I make a real effort to be kind and courteous. I guess what I need to remember that there is always someone else in my car – my Higher Power. I also need to remember that making amends is not just an apology; it’s also a commitment not to do the same behavior again.

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