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Some Subtle Reasons Why We Get More from Being Loving than Being Loved – Step 7

“Other people in our lives help us to develop trust and loving attitudes, we demand less and give more. We are slower to anger and quicker to forgive”. “We begin to feel lovable which  is a feeling totally alien  to our old egocentric selves.”  (The Basic Text, p. 97)

‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”  – Alfred, Lord Tennyson (1809 – 1892) British poet

 

I’m Going to Love You Just A Little Bit More – Barry White (4:09)

Rabbi Talks About Sin (2:56)

Never Regret Giving Love Guided Meditation (7:16)

 

In what ways have you been loving and not just lovable, lately?

 

 

How Do I Love Thee?
by Elizabeth Barrett Browning – 1806-1861

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I  love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

Zonr logo on being lovable

 

This Post Has 3 Comments

  1. Margot E.

    Slim Jim, I love you and didn’t realize it until now. Thanks so much for sharing on this website.

  2. Slim Jim

    The speaker said tonite that someone saying that he loved him and really meant it, is what made all the difference in the world for him and started his life in sobriety.

    So Easy, Margo and Brita … I LOVE YOU. I LOVE YOU JUST FOR BEING YOU. And that’s all anyone can ever ask.

  3. Easy does it

    Boy I wish I would have realized this a few months ago ! It would have
    Saved me a LOT of heartache! If I would have applied this principal
    Would have discussed issues rather than lashed out and been accusatory. Now someone I love deeply won’t speak to me. Hurts…hurts bad

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